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The Adoptive and Foster Family Coalition of New York returns with the 35th Annual New York State Foster Care and Adoption Conference!

Ā Thursday May 9th and Friday May 10th at the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, NY!

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VIRTUAL PRE CONFERENCE EVENTSĀ 

Virtually on Friday April 26th from 11 AM to 12:30 PM EST

Beyond Picky Eating and Power Struggles: How a Responsive Approach to Feeding Supports Felt Safety, Connection, Nutrition, and Health:

This is not another talk about how to get kids to eat vegetables. This session will help you understand why eating and mealtimes can be so difficult, and shares trauma-informed, nervous-system focused and relationship-building strategies to help children do their best with eating. With worries often fueling power struggles, a major goal of this session is to share reassuring information and practical, flexible support.Ā 

with Katja Rowell MD, aka the Feeding Doctor

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Virtually on Friday April 26th from 3 PM to 4:30 PM EST

How Can the “Foster Care” System Be More Effective?

Is there a place underneath all the layers of laws and legislation, policy and practice, where the current foster care system can serve parents, youth, and foster parents more effectively? What can we realistically do right now in order to improve the outcomes of the youth families that need help? Please join this panel discussion with three community leaders working together to share their personal and professionals perspectives and insights to both realistically address these issues and build on the solutions.

with Joyce McMillan from JMACforFamilies, Jessica Grimm of Bravehearts M.O.V.E. New York, the Coalition’s Antoinette Sumter Cotman

and Alan Yu of New Yorkers for ChildrenĀ 

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Virtually on Friday May 3rd from 10AM to 11:30 AM ESTĀ 

Balancing Brilliance and Belonging: Intersection of Giftedness, Adoption and Foster Care.

Researchers at Purdue University studied Ā the unique experiences of those who are gifted as well as adopted or in foster care. The findings are to be released later this year in a book which focuses on the overlapping social and emotional issues experienced by individuals who have first-hand knowledge of the challenges of adoption or foster care and of giftedness.Ā  In addition to the educational and practical application aspects of the research,Ā  there are opportunities to understand the feelings, experiences and unique obstacles this intersectionality faces.

with Alissa Cress, Kathy Green & Mariel TaderĀ Ā 

Virtually on Friday May 3rd from 12 – 1:30 PM ESTĀ 

Letā€™s Talk Race: A Beginnerā€™s Guide to Conversations About Race

Being able to talk to children about the reality of what children learn in school systems, see in the media, hear form their friends, or experience themselves is vital. It can also be hard to do. It can more challenging when we don’t know what is the ā€œrightā€ thing to say and and how to say it. Luckily, there are classes to help us!

Join in to learn more books, movies, videos, podcasts, and people to follow on social media to help you expand your “echo chamber!”

with Shelley and David Park

Virtually on Friday May 3rd from 2 – 3:30 PM ESTĀ 

Learn to Advocate for Children with Special Needs & Ā Individualized Education Programs (IEPs):

Designed to give parents and caregivers of special needs children the knowledge and resources necessary to develop effective strategies for advocating on behalf of a special needs child.

This virtual workshop will focus on the definition of advocacy, strategies for planning, preparing and presenting information, parent rights, laws and regulations governing special education, acronyms, resources and a discussion of the four areas of advocacy (education, medical, family and community).

with RenƩe Falanga Brenner

Virtually on Friday May 3rd from 7:30 – 8:30 PM ESTĀ 

An Interview: Bryan Post and Angela TuckerĀ 

What happens when two outspoken leaders in theĀ  field meet? What happens when both parties can rely on years of both professional expertise and lived experiences in order to relate and connect?Ā  What insight might these two brilliant minds have and share about that ultimate quest: Finding Resilience?Ā  This is your opportunity to find out.

Join us for our final PRE CONFERENCE virtual event with TWO of our keynote speakers!

with keynotes: Bryan Post and Angela TuckerĀ 

 

Conference Schedule at a Glance

THURSDAY MAY 9thĀ 


Late Registration, Check-in, & Breakfast 8:00 AM


Conference Opening & Welcome 9:00 AM ā€“ 9:30 AM


Keynote 1: Angela Tucker 9:30 AM ā€“ 11:00 AM


Workshop Session 1 11:15 AM ā€“ 12:30 PM


Lunch with Keynote Bryan Post 1:00 PM ā€“ 2:30 PM


Workshop Session 2 2:45 PM ā€“ 4:00 PM


Workshop Session 3 4:15 PM ā€“ 5:30 PM


Dinner Break (on your own) 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM


Evening Event: UN-M-Othered 7:30 PM – 9:00 PM

FRIDAY MAY 10thĀ 


Registration & Breakfast 8:00 AM


Workshop Session 4 9:00 AM ā€“ 10:15 AM


Keynote 3: Gretchen Sisson 10:30 AM ā€“ 12:00 AM


Boxed Lunch with Maureen Flatley 12:00 PM ā€“1:00 PM


Workshop Session 5 1:00 PM – 2:15 PM


Workshop Session 6 2:30 PM – 3:45 PM


Closing Keynote: Kim Stevens 4:00 PM


 

Full Conference Schedule of Events

In-Person Conference Ā· Thursday, May 9th

Registration, Check-in & Breakfast

8:00 AM

Opening and Welcome

9:00 AM – 9:30 AM

Join Coalition Executive Director, Pat Oā€™Brien and special guests bright and early!

Keynote Presentation 9:30 AM – 11:00 AM

2024 Keynote Speaker: Angela Tucker

2024 Keynote Speaker,Ā  Angela Tucker

Angela Tucker, a Black transracial adoptee, is an author and internationally recognized speaker on adoption, race, identity and inclusion.

Her debut book; ā€œYou Should Be Grateful:ā€ Stories of Race, Identity and Transracial Adoption, was published in April 2023 by Beacon Press. At the age of 26 Angela found her biological family. Her determination and insatiable curiosity is an inspiration to many and is on display through her search for her biological parents in the intimate documentary,Ā CLOSUREĀ (Hulu, Netflix, Amazon Prime). Angela has worked within child welfare for the past 15 years

Workshop Breakout Session 1Ā  Ā 11:15 AM – 12:30 PM

1A: Breaking the Circle of Trauma with Reframing Parenting

Hudson Valley AGAPE Team

Join the Hudson Valley AGAPE post placement support team for this educational introduction to the Reframing Parenting series. Reframing Parenting is AGAPE’s foundational training curriculum based on Foundations for Attachment Training Resource by Kim Golding, whose work is based on that of Dan Hughes. This curriculum has been adopted and modified (including a virtual delivery) by the Adoptive and Foster Family Coalition of New York to help foster, adoptive and kinship parents nurture attachments with their child. It is designed specifically for those caring for children whose capacity to emotionally connect has been compromised as a result of attachment problems, trauma, and loss or separation.

1B: Foster Care Unplugged: Healing Through Therapeutic Performance

Foster Care Unplugged

Foster Care Unplugged, The Stage Play and short film projects offer a unique perspective on the challenges and triumphs of those who have experienced the child welfare system.Ā  Led by former and current foster care youth, these productions are not only a creative outlet, but also a therapeutic one. Cast members undergo a 12-week intensive program where they acquire skills in acting techniques, script analysis, and scene study fundamentals. They also engage in a therapeutic performance-based component, similar to psychodrama, to process unresolved trauma and promote awareness of real-life child welfare experiences that have shaped their lives.

Lunch with Keynote Presentation 1:oo PM – 2:30 PM

2024 Keynote Speaker: Bryan Post

2024 Keynote Speaker,Ā  Bryan Post

Bryan Post, an adopted and former foster child, specializes in a love-based treatment approach that focuses on developing a deeper understanding of trauma, stress and fear and how they rule our lives.

Bryan Post is one of Americaā€™s Foremost Child Behavior and Adoption Experts and founder of theĀ Post InstituteĀ  for Family-Centered Therapy.Ā  TheĀ Post Institute works with adults, children and families struggling with early life trauma and the impact on the development of the mind/body system.Ā  A renowned clinician, lecturer, and best-selling author of From Fear to Love, The Great Behavior Breakdown and ten other books, and more than 100 video and audio programs, Bryan has traveled throughout the world providing expert treatment and consultation to a variety of groups. An internationally recognized specialist in the treatment of emotional and behavioral disturbance, Bryan specializes in a love-based treatment approach that focuses on developing a deeper understanding of trauma, stress and fear and how they rule our lives. He counters this by offering an enlightening perspective on the all-encompassing power of love to bring us peace and healing.Ā  The love-based, family-centered principles and concepts offered by Bryan have been taught to more than one million parents and professionals around the world.

Workshop Breakout Session 2 2:45 PM – 4:00 PM

2A: The Ethics and Impacts of Mandated Reporting

Dr. Kathryn Krase

For years the message has been “when in doubt, call the State Central Registry and report any suspicion of child abuse or neglect.” Far too often, reports of maltreatment center on a parentā€™s lack of resources rather than actual child abuse. This has resulted in a staggering increase of abuse and maltreatment reports that not only are unwarranted in the first place but, in many cases, were based solely on race and poverty. This resulted in alarming and disproportionately statistics under these guidelines. Dr. Kathryn Krase is an expert on the professional reporting of suspected child maltreatment and has authored multiple books and articles on the subject.

2B: Parenting Brain Power-Up

Jessica Sinarski, LPCMHĀ 

We all know the healing power that a strong parent-child relationship can provide. And yet, when faced with aggression, defiance, and other trauma-driven behavior, the adult brain’s natural response is to flip into protection mode. This workshop will provide a much-needed boost to weary parents by helping you see beneath the surface, befriend your wholeĀ brain (even the parts they get extra protective), and practice resilience-boosting strategies for everyday life.

Workshop Breakout Session 3 4:15 PM – 5:30 PM

3A: Ā Emotional Behavior and Brain Development

Nim Tottenham, PhD

Nim Tottenham, PhD is a Professor of Psychology at Columbia University and Director of the Developmental Affective Neuroscience Laboratory. Her research examines the development of the neurobiology associated with mature emotional behavior in humans. Her work has highlighted fundamental changes in amygdala-prefrontal cortex circuitry across childhood and adolescence and the powerful role that early experiences, such as caregiving and stress, have on the developmental trajectories of these circuits. Dr. Tottenham’s studies use fMRI, behavioral, and physiological methods to examine human limbic-cortical development in children and adolescents as well as in their parents. She has authored over 70 journal articles and book chapters and is a frequent lecturer both nationally and internationally on human brain development and emotional development.Ā 

3B: How Language Influences the Relationships in the Triad of Foster Care

Foster Blessings: Angela Paganelli & Rachel Doyle

Rachel Doyle, Founder of Fostering Hope Together and Angela Paganelli, NLP, founder of Foster Blessings, author of “Foster Blessings and “How About You”, together are also the founders of Hope Rising Up Ministries. Rachel is mother to 18 children through biology and adoption, and Angela is a former foster youth, foster and adoptive mother. They will be presenting about resilience through language. The importance of the language that we use with, and in front of our children, and about their first families, is critical. Learn how using positive language can help the resilience shine in your child(ren).Ā 

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Dinner Break 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM

While several of the CIA’s student run restaurants are within walking distance of Marriott Pavillion, it is strongly recommended that reservations are made for your intended seating as soon as possible. Off CIA campus there are quite a few additional dining options right on Route 9.

Thursday Evening Live Event 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

2024 AFFCNY Adoption Conference live event Un-M-Othered

Un-M-Othered (a Story of Adoption and Patriarchy)

Told through movement, poetry, and personal narrative Un-M-Othered is an exploration of identity, belonging, and the need to know the past in order to live more fully in the present. In Un-M-Othered, Liz explores adoption culture and the intense impact that closed adoption has on adoptees physically, emotionally, and developmentally throughout their lives.Ā 

What a work of both physical and emotional intensity, a depiction of the agony and chaotic inner world of an adoptee. It so clearly and powerfully portrays the journey from the primal wound of maternal separation ā€” the trauma, longing, and dissociation from self ā€” into reunion and healing. Such an honor to share in that vulnerability and see the collective emotions around family separation expressed on stage.”

Join us at the IN-PERSON EVENT for this incredible experience!

PLEASE NOTE: the Thursday Evening Programming will NOT be cast virtually nor recorded.Ā 

Conference Ā· Friday, May 10th

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Registration, Check-in & Breakfast

8:00 AM – 9:00 AM

Workshop Breakout Session 4 9:00 AM – 10:15 AM

4A: Practicing Community Resilience: Bias and Triggers Within

Panel Discussion moderated by Sharon Williams

Resilient communities actively strengthen and promote individual and community well-being and cohesiveness, engage and prioritize vulnerable and/or marginalized groups, and increase community social connections and collaboration. Join Sharon Williams, in conversation with others in our community, in an open and honest look within. We’ll be taking the knowledge and tools that we use to look at other systems to practice what we preach – being real. open and vulnerable with each other – in order to both grow as individuals and in mutual community understanding.

4B: In Their Own Words: What Students in New Yorkā€™s Foster System Need to Succeed

Chantal HindsĀ 

This workshop will share new policy research conducted by Chantal Hinds with 75 participants with foster system experience in New York State. Participants included current and former foster youth and young adults, parents, adoptive parents, and foster parents. Participants shared their school and foster system experiences and provided policy recommendations for how our schools, agencies, and counties can provide more support to help foster youth achieve their educational and life goals.

Keynote PresentationĀ  Ā  Ā 10:30 AM – 12:00 PM

2024 Keynote Speaker: Gretchen Sisson

2024 Keynote Speaker, Gretchen Sisson

Gretchen is the author of Relinquished: The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood, Newly published from St. Martinā€™s Press in February 2024.

Gretchen Sisson, PhD, is a sociologist who studies abortion and adoption in the United States. She is a researcher atĀ Advancing New Standards in Reproductive Health, part of the Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Sciences at the University of California, San Francisco. Her studies on adoption include hundreds of in-depth interviews with women who have relinquished infants for domestic adoption over the past 60 years, with a particular focus on women who have relinquished sinceĀ Roe v. Wade.

Her research examining adoption decision-making after abortion denial (as part ofĀ The Turnaway Study) was cited in the Supreme Courtā€™s dissent inĀ Dobbs v. Jackson Womenā€™s HealthĀ from Justices Breyer, Kagan, and Sotomayor. In response to the oral arguments and decision inĀ Dobbs, she authored pieces in theĀ Washington Post,Ā The Nation, and theĀ Washington PostĀ (again). Gretchenā€™s research has been featured on NPRā€™sĀ All Things ConsideredĀ andĀ Consider This, as well as inĀ New York Magazine,Ā VOX, and other outlets.

Ā A LunchĀ  Discussion 12:00Ā  – 1:00 PM

Ā with special guest, Maureen Flatley

Federal Policy Review: What Worked, What Went Wrong, How Can We Do Better?

Maureen Flatley is a subject matter expert in child welfare and child exploitation with a particular expertise in government reform and oversight. For over 40 years she has provided consultation to policy makers, attorneys, nonprofits, families and individuals on a wide range of related issues. Her advocacy on Capitol Hill has resulted in the introduction, passage and implementation of large scale reforms of child welfare, adoption and child abuse and exploitation laws.Ā  She is well established as a trusted and knowledgeable insider on the front lines of federal policy and legislation.Ā 

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Workshop Breakout Session 5 1:00 PM – 2:15 PM

5A: Trauma-informed, Healing Centered School Strategies

Heather Murphy & Michele Hochstetter

Welcome to a dive into Trauma: Neurodiverse Tools and Strategies for Kids. In this workshop we will provide some information that school staff and personnel have and use. We will describe what trauma with students with disabilities can look like. Lastly we will discuss strategies that are used within the school setting that can be transferred to home. We hope to offer you a foundation of knowledge, resources to connect use with school collaboration, and strategies that can be used both at home and within the school setting. We hope you walk away with a framework to connect to schools and some strategies to successfully address trauma.

5B: Itā€™s All Relative: The Reality of the Kinship Experience

Panel Discussion moderated by Ellen Earley

A family’s ability to effectively functionā€”including caring for its membersā€”following potentially traumatic events is resilience. Kinship care is an act of family resilience in action. While kinship care preserves family relationships and emphasizes the value of connection, kinship families are often a more vulnerable population facing a myriad of long-standing challenges for both caregivers and children. Yet, evidence suggests children in kinship care fare even better when there is increased opportunity for their families to glean additional supports. Caregiver social support and engagement have emerged as protective factors for health and mental health outcomes among children in kinship care. Let’s listen to what our kinship families really need.

Workshop Breakout Session 6 2:30 PM – 3:45 PM

6A: Building a Bridge; Birth Parents & Foster Parents Working Together

Jeanette Vega-Brown

Positive relationships between parents and foster parents help children in care to feel more secure and adjust more easily after reunification. Can foster parents and child welfare professionals collaborate with the parents of children in care? Parent advocacy leaders at RISE say YES!!!
“Building a Bridge”, a RISE publication and curriculum, provides powerful evidence that improved communication makes enormous differences in foster childrenā€™s lives. Learn how these 20 stories by parents, foster parents, and teens plus 14 worksheets can be used to help parents and foster parents establish positive working relationships.

6B: Therapy Modalities for Complex Trauma

Dr. James Rodriguez

Dr. James Rodriguez is a Senior Research Scientist and Director of Trauma-Informed Services at the McSilver Institute. He is a New York State-licensed clinical social worker and psychologist with over 25 years of providing mental health services to children, youth and families in a variety of service settings, including direct practice, training and research experience in the area of trauma treatment and services. His work at McSilver Institute includes the development and dissemination of training materials to promote trauma-informed care in diverse service settings for children, youth and families.

Keynote PresentationĀ  Ā  4:00 PM

2024 Keynote Speaker: Kim Stevens

2024 Keynote Speaker, Kim Stevens

Cultivating Resilience of the Soul: Grace & Wisdom from Mistakes Made

Weā€™ve all heard ā€œwhen you know better, you do betterā€ and itā€™s true. It also means that there was a time when we didnā€™t know better and we might not have done our best. This is especially true with parenting, increasingly challenged by parenting through trauma, and like all things, terribly clear in hindsight. Plus, itā€™s just human to make mistakes. Yet, how do we not just recover, but repair? How can we be more accountable to those who deserved more from us when we were not at our best? Can we forgive ourselves for not being perfect while still acknowledging our own mistakes with our unhealthy scripts such as shame or blame?

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The Adoptive and Foster Family Coalition of New York returns with the 35th Annual New York State Foster Care and Adoption Conference!

LIVE and in person! PLUS continued virtual delivery in the AFFCNY.Network!

Thursday, May 9th and Friday, May 10th at the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, NY!

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